It's enough to indulge and to be selfish but true happiness is really when you start giving back.
What is important is family, friends, giving back to your community and finding meaning in life.
I think winter wear is communal. You get some gloves and a scarf from a lost-and-found box, wash them, wear them for a while until you lose them. Then somebody else does the same thing.
Celebrities become divas because they get pampered so much, babied so much - then they get used to it.
Secondly, love and relationships are complicated. No one could ever get it right in a four-line sentence.